Why did we pick the name Stacy? For some reason Jack’s name came very easy for us but we had such a hard time thinking of a girls name once we found out Aya was having a girl this time around. We searched social security for the top names of the past few years. We didn’t like any of the ‘popular’ names. Naturally I was still rooting for the name Jill but that wasn’t going to happen.
Since Stacy’s due date was 1/4 and my Mom’s birthday was 1/5 and my mother in-laws birthday was 1/6, Aya and I decided to try to think of a name that used both the first letter of both our moms first name…S for Susan and Y for Yoko. We thought, Stacy. We weren’t 100% sure we would go with that name. We thought about Shirley, Sally and Shelly…but those for mostly after thoughts for other names with S and Y.
As you all know, Stacy was not born on her 1/4 due date. We did get another ‘visitor’…a cricket. I hate crickets and for the past 6-7 months we have had a ton of crickets around our house. They get into the garage and sometimes the house and it just drives me crazy. This time a cricket got behind the dishwasher and behind the cabinet so there was no way for me to kill it. I figured I would be tortured one night but it would move along the next night and I would kill it.
The next night the cricket was the in the EXACT same spot making the annoying cricket noise again! Grr. I tried to ‘scare’ the cricket out but since I wasn’t 100% sure where the cricket was I was just blindly poking around. No luck. Crap bag.
The next night the cricket was there…AGAIN. I mean this cricket doesn’t go anywhere during the day and doesn’t make any noise until I go downstairs to watch tv from at night. Stupid, stupid cricket. I finally went online to check for cricket poison, cricket traps and then I saw two urban legends related to crickets:
1. Crickets in the house brings good luck
2. For a cricket to choose to come into your home signifies something good is on the way. Sometimes it's a child, a monetary gain, good news of some sort. And to kill it is not good! It will leave on its own shortly before the good news
I happened to mention this to Aya and then Aya told me not to kill the cricket because Stacy was due any day now so why ‘jinx’ any of our chances. Ugh.
For 2 more nights the cricket chirped away but it got less annoying. I still wanted to buy cricket poison but I decided to ‘test’ the cricket myth.
After Aya gave birth I came home one night to take a shower and no cricket noise. Since we have been home no cricket noise either. Aya had a super easy delivery (relative to Jack’s delivery) and Stacy is a-ok. No jaundice like Jack, no ailments thus far and Stacy sleeps A LOT. So maybe, just maybe the cricket was good luck for us!