I suppose you either spank or you don’t spank your kids. I think the parents I talk to it is about 50-50 if they spank their children or not. I am one of those parents that spank their children.
I figure I grew and got spanked…I turned out okay…so why not spank my own children. Aya and I read some parenting books before Jack was born and we talked about NOT spanking our children. It sounded like a good idea and I was up for it. It all depends on the child and how well they behave. We tried several techniques but in the end it has come down to spanking Jack.
Aya RARELY disciplines Jack. She has a hard time even raising her voice with Jack...so it is no surprise Jack doesn’t listen to her at all. Now, if I raise my voice Jack tends to listen…but not always.
The other day Jack was not listening and I gave him so many chances to avoid a spanking and just LISTEN but he just kept pushing it and pushing it until I finally said, “Okay, time for a spanking. I will be waiting in your room and when you are ready come in and get your spanking. For each second I count that is how many spankings you will get.”
Of course Jack doesn’t listen so instead of coming into the room at 1 for 1 spanking he waits until I am up to 4 and then realizes he is going to get 4 spankings. Jack is so mad and so stubborn he yanks down his pants, bends over, looks at me and tells me, “You can spank me but I am NOT going to cry. No crying.”
Okay…if you want to dare me…WHAP!!
I gotta say Jack kept to his word and didn’t cry at all. He got his spankings, he listened to why he got his spankings and he sat thru a time out AFTER the spankings. Only when we said sorry to each other that is when Jack started to cry. He is so sensitive just like his mom.